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Why “Nice Guys” Suck and Women Don’t Want You
There are many men that feel they are a “nice guy” and that women are crazy to pass them over. Well, I have some news for you dudes.
Nobody cares that you are “nice.”
See, the problem is that “nice” guys put themselves on some sort of pedestal. Nice guys like to think […]
Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire! Dating, Lies and Deception Are Often a Package Deal
Whether you are a teen new to dating, or recently single again after a breakup or divorce, it pays to date smart! Learn to recognize the behaviors that indicate your date is not being 100% truthful.
Lies of Omission
Your date conveniently “forgot” to mention that there was a spouse at home, a baby on the way […]
Parental Relationship Soured Over Interracial Romance
As an advice columnist specializing in Black and interracial relationships, I frequently receive letters from both parents and children seeking understanding and guidance in navigating the conflicts which arise in their relationship. The issue of interracial dating is fraught with the greatest amount of emotional upheaval for both parties.
A reader writes: “My […]
The Real Purpose of A Relationship
I want to share information that I believe will inspire you to want better for yourselves in relationships, and be better for yourselves from your relationships to your communities and to the world. At the very least it will cause you to think, which might be better than someone lambasting you constantly without offering any […]
African American Authors: Promote and Sell Your Self-Published Black Book
Self-publishing is the hottest trend in books, as it provides creative thinkers turned authors with a fast and easy way to get their work on the market. With the added option of “print on demand”, and desktop publishing and design software, the initial cost to get your book out can be very minimal. […]
Infidelity and Cheating: How You Can Tell If Your Man is Cheating on You!
When cheating, most men begin to mistreat their significant other in little ways. She may notice that he starts talking to her in negative nasty ways, or accuses HER of cheating (out of guilt I suppose). Some men become overtly disrespectful and stay out all night, stay gone for days at a time, or become […]
That Dreaded “C” Word - Men and Commitment
Say we have a couple that have been dating for a year or so. They are monogamous, he says he loves her, she loves him. He knows he doesn’t want to lose her. She cannot imagine her life without him in it. They have great sex, good times, long intimate conversations.
So one day she says: […]
Unconditional Love - A Realistic Relationship Goal or a Romantic Fantasy?
A young woman wrote in to my dating advice column recently and asked me: “What qualities are absolutely essential in a partner or in an ideal relationship? I have a pretty huge list and want to share some of them with you
o affectionate
o unconditional love for each […]
Are You Wasting Your Time Loving “Suckas?”
I was born and raised in San Francisco, which is known as The City, San Fran, and even the hated ‘Frisco. A few years ago, it became known as the Sucka Free city. I love it!
However, there are still people around that are so out of the loop, they don’t know […]
The Phenomenon of Internet Dating
Over the last 15 years, Internet dating has gained in popularity as a medium to meet romantic partners. Busy single professionals acknowledge having few opportunities to meet other available singles.
I believe the Internet, if used effectively, can be a great tool for screening out the freaks, weirdos, neurotics and game players, and screening […]
